Remember the first date... you wanted to know what the other party thought, and why they think the way they do.
Somewhere between familiarity and predictability, we stopped asking 'why' and 'how come'.
If one is moody, they are just playing up. Is there really a need to find out why?
Microwave answers and assumptions-easy to conjure, convenient to use and saves a lot of effort.
When did we stop getting curious? Isn't curiosity part of understanding?
